I don't understand why men/boys don't understand.

1. that a " bestfriend" doesn't cry when you get a girlfriend. They cry because they know it's gonna be exhausting when trying to ruin another relationship.

2. they don't get livid if you don't text them back. They want to be in contact with you at all times so they know whether or not you are with your girlfriend.

3. they never have boyfriends because they are secretly waiting to pounce on you when the moment comes.

4. the " bestfriend" that has "boy" problems and wants wants a reason to hang out with you. We all know that it's a fake boy and there are no problems.

5. (number four can be added to this) homework and study sessions. She's a nerd and knows every answer to every problem, there is no way she needs help.

6. just because they are nice to your girlfriends face, doesn't mean they aren't walking away thinking about you naked and coming up with a plan to break y'all apart.

7. trying to act like they know more about you than your girl. They tell all yalls friends that you both are so close blah freakin blah. But in reality, they didn't even remember your birthday if it weren't for the facebook birthday reminder.

8. They are only super nice to your parents because they want them to like them more than the girlfriend. They don't bring cookies over everyday because they really enjoy your parents.

isn't understanding my mind games.

My friend (sam) has a boyfriend (angel), who used to be my bestfriend.
For awhile he did not like the idea of Sam and I being friends.
Him and I do not see eye to eye anymore like we used too. More so me.
He is always texting/calling me asking to hang out or just to talk.
He will do this all day and ALL night. Even while im freakin trying to sleep.
Sam always had me be the one to fix Angel and I's relationship so that we could all hang out with no problems.
Lately, its been my priority to make him happy.
For example, he called me today 4 times, left a voicemail, and 10 texts.
THEN he text sam telling her to text me to tell me to text him.
Samantha text me saying text Angel because he wants to go look for a job with you.

This is how I see it, he is just my bestfriends boyfriend. I don't want to hang out with him or go anywhere with him. I don't want him to text me 24/7. I do not want to be his friend.
I have no idea how to tell her that her boyfriend is annoying and I dont want to be his friend for her satisfaction.

I have sorta let myself go.
I used to work out every morning for soccer.
I was in such good shape. But now it seems as if everything has just fallen. lol

So, i am going to get up every morning and go to the gym.
Starting tomorrow for a week.
I am going to work on my legs, arms and abs.

This has just gone too far. I need to get my ass to gym.

Everyone says that the summer after your senior year in high school is the best.
I would have to disagree!
I went out to az for 2 weeks to spend time with the family and my brother. I come back and it feels like hell. Or is that life?
When i got my car, i had worked for almost a year to save up for my car. (it was mom's rule)
I have a 1998 chevy caviler that just recently got ac put in. I paid $1,800 for.
My sister is 16 and has no job and had a car fully paid for. She got a 2005 ford escape for $7,500.
But they call me selfish and not happy for her? hmmmm...

They are pushing me to get a new job, so i look. The car breaks down.
I get in trouble for that.
And currently my mom is sooo mad at me that she wont talk to me.
She says "you are walking around with a chip on your shoulder!"
Which actually, i have had a somewhat decent attiude throughout this whole ordeal.

When is it going to become easy?